Thursday, January 21, 2010

Bloggy Brain?

Do you ever go about your day....minding your personal business, doing what you do everyday for YOU....only to catch yourself thinking about your blog friends? Not to be confused with obsessing, mind you. Don't go get an ego or anything like that. But as we spend time reading about lives we would never have crossed otherwise, they become part of our everyday.

For example, the boys' daycare is set back from the road with a large expanse of grass/field in front. Probably close to two acres, if I had to guess. This grassy area, during good weather, is home to a gaggle of geese. Aside from shitting all over the driveway up to the building, they appear harmless, almost petlike. But because of Cammie and her incessant hatred of geese, I only picture a mass attack (on some random woman of course...not me or the boys), and to be perfectly honest....I sometimes think they "talk" to one another planning said attack while I watch them.

Need another example? Driving to work today, I saw a sad, little construction cone. It was sad because it was tilted and it was faded. So faded, in fact, that you couldn't see a speck of bright orange, nor could you see any stripe. How in the world does a construction cone equate to blogging, you ask? Iggy. I have NO idea where this started, and maybe he can answer that for us in the comments. But he's got a thing for cones. He even owns one and it is named. He has other blog friends who think of him and send in photos of cones for him. Today, I wished I'd had my camera to capture the sadness of neglected cones.

Let's go further. New Year's Eve. I stayed busy playing games with my family and friends, eating and such. Okay, eating a lot. But when I had a moment to think of something other than a board game, I let myself wonder how Dorkys was fairing with her new beau. I wondered if they were enjoying their "alone" together time in NYC for NYE. In case you're wondering, they did.


Just to continue with the examples.....there are times when I visit family and wonder....what if I ran into Anna, a darling college student? She attends the same university I did, in the same town I visit so frequently. She even wrote an article about this lovely town. I doubt that we'd actually recognize one another if we happened to find ourselves in the same location on the same day, but the chances aren't so "out there" as to call it impossible. The town is small and if I had the boys with me, they're too cute to ignore. She'd surely recognize the naughty that IS OJ, right? I do wonder.

Last example. My sister Anna. When I let days go by without blogging...when I find myself having difficulty coming up with thoughts I deem blog-worthy, I sit in anticipation of her email or her weekend comment about my slackish attitude. What this tells me is that my little sister actually enjoys the mumbles I provide, the updates on the family, the silliness that IS Tooj and the Tooj household. When I periodically check into my blog tracker and see someone reading from the city where my other sister, Leslie, works, I know that she also enjoys the blog.

I like that THEY like it. I like that many of you keep coming back, commenting, corresponding. Comments are the only way for a blogger to truly know that they are being enjoyed, and I'm grateful that so many of you take the time to say something, laugh at me, laugh with me. I don't just like comments, I love the conversation. Thank you, all, for that.

16 comments:

Cindy Lou Who said...

I do that too! Glad I'm not the only one. Kinda like a Virtual extended family - keeping tabs on everyone! :o)

Anna said...

i do the SAME THING!! actually, sometimes on campus i wonder about "did tooj have class in here?! i bet we would have a blast at games together...i wonder if she could have helped me with this stupid homework..." & it makes me giggle.

blog friends are amazing. : )
i'm thinking you should probably tell me in advance when you are in town so we could grab some grub or something of the sorts! ; )
how fun would that be?!

happy FRIDAY!!!!!
xo-

foxy said...

I think about my bloggy friends all the time. In fact, i thought about you once when i thought i saw a turtle in the middle of the road (but i wasn't 100% sure that it was in fact a turtle and i was too far gone to go back and check).

This was a great post!! So great that I just may steal it... and link back, of course! :)

Cammie said...

yeah, you watch your back

Debbie said...

I actually mistake a sales lady at our local mall for a bloggy friend that lives half way around the country!

Meagan@Megs7827 said...

I'm so glad you did a post about this! I tell Hubby about my blog friends all the time. I also think I might run into someone in the grocery store or something.

Mrs Montoya said...

Ha Ha Ha! I get bloggy brain, too. I start writing a post in my mind when something clever happens and then I can't remember shit when it's time to pull it together. At Christmas I found all kinds of stuff that I would give my bloggy friends if I were super rich and gifting my peeps like that. But I'm not.

Dorkys Ramos said...

Aww you're so sweet! Yes, I find myself thinking about fools like you too. How the boys are doing, how the pregnancy's going, the new job duties, etc. Oh, and ESPECIALLY when I'm stuck watching football somewhere :)

And Iggy's got me thinking twice when I pass by those darn cones, too!

Anonymous said...

I do the same thing! I started blogging because it seemed 'everyone was doing it' (yep, I'd probably jump off the bridge too) and at first I didn't have many people stopping by, but then a community started and I got to 'know' those who visited regularly and who I visited regularly and now I truly consider my webby-friends as just friends, no distinction as to how they came into my life or whether I've ever seen them in person or not.

Rebecca said...

Aw man, I just deleted a very well thought out comment.

Long story, short. I agree!

Mocha Dad said...

I'm leaving this comment so you will have another blog friend to think about.

Is Dis Normal or Dysfunctional? said...

Just today, I was on the gondola with a friend of mine and we had a great conversation with a man who was sitting with us.

When we got off she made fun of me for being so friendly and told her that I have become much friendlier since I have been social networking. I figure, if I am making so many wonderful friends online than I should be making an effort to meet them in my hometown as well!

Teresha@Marlie and Me said...

I do the same thing I even talk about my bloggy friends to my husband who gives me a weird look.

Janna Bee said...

I do this too... example... when I went to Lollapalooza I think I mentioned that you were just in Chicago the weekend before twice. My one friend that reads blogs understood, the other one thought I was Crazay!

Intense Guy said...

Awww... Shucks... *blushing*

Thanks for the shout out! :)

I think about a lot of bloggy pals a lot of times. I have a card from Dorkys on my desk at work so I recall you and her being penpals in an instance every work day. And of course when I see orange juice (OJ) in the supermarket, or hear the word "Jay" you pop into my head.

As to how the cone thing started... I think I just had too much NyQuil one evening before taking a walk. I think you'd enjoy the story. :)

Mox said...

My bloggy friends are always creeping into my thoughts, including you TOOJ. It is really interesting, I think, to have such intimate friendships with people you may never meet or even hear the sound of their voice.